Friday, November 20, 2009

Red Shirt**

If the red shirt thing is new to you, read below how it went for a man...

Last week, while traveling to Chicago on business, I noticed a Marine sergeant traveling with a folded flag, but did not put two and two together.

After we boarded our flight, I turned to the sergeant, who'd been invited to sit in First Class (across from me), and inquired if he was heading home.

No, he responded.

Heading out I asked?

No. I'm escorting a soldier home.

Going to pick him up?

No. He is with me right now. He was killed in Iraq , I'm taking him home to his family.

The realization of what he had been asked to do hit me like a punch to the gut. It was an honor for him. He told me that, although he didn't know the soldier, he had delivered the news of his passing to the soldier's family and felt as if he knew them after many conversations in so few days.

I turned back to him, extended my hand, and said, Thank you. Thank you for doing what you do so my family and I can do what we do.

Upon landing in Chicago the pilot stopped short of the gate and made the following announcement over the intercom.

"Ladies and gentlemen, I would like to note that we have had the honor of having Sergeant Steeley of the United States Marine Corps join us on this flight. He is escorting a fallen comrade back home to his family. I ask that you please remain in your seats when we open the forward door to allow Sergeant Steeley to deplane and receive his fellow soldier. We will then turn off the seat belt sign."

Without a sound, all went as requested. I noticed the sergeant saluting the casket as it was brought off the plane, and his action made me realize that I am proud to be an American.

So here's a public Thank You to our military Men and Women for what you do so we can live the way we do.

Red Fridays.

Very soon, you will see a great many people wearing Red every Friday. The reason? Americans who support our troops used to be called the "silent majority." We are no longer silent, and are voicing our love for God, country and home in record breaking numbers. We are not organized, boisterous or overbearing.

Many Americans, like you, me and all our friends, simply want to recognize that the vast majority of America supports our troops. Our idea of showing solidarity and support for our troops with dignity and respect starts this Friday -- and continues each and every Friday until the troops all come home, sending a deafening message that .... every red-blooded American who supports our men and women a-far, will wear something red.

By word of mouth, press, TV -- let's make the United States on every Friday a sea of red much like a homecoming football game in the bleachers. If every one of us who loves this country will share this with acquaintances, coworkers, friends, and family, it will not be long before the USA is covered in RED and it will let our troops know the once "silent" majority is on their side more than ever, certainly more than the media lets on.

The first thing a soldier says when asked "What can we do to make things better for you?" is. "We need your support and your prayers." Let's get the word out and lead with class and dignity, by example, and wear something red every Friday.

**Disclaimer - I got this story directly from Facebook. Most of the words in this post are not mine. I checked to see if it was authentic on Snopes.com. I'm not sure if the names are real people or not but I do know that there are organizations promoting this and can be found HERE and HERE and also HERE.**

Whether or not the story is completely accurate, it still touched me. So, here's my red shirt. Happy Friday!





Tuesday, November 3, 2009

I just love contests


...that give me an excuse to do a 'cheater' post. *grin*



My girl Domestic Debacle is doing a contest on her blog and I sure would love to win it. Please visit her to see the details and to enter by clicking ---> HERE



Monday, November 2, 2009

Facebook

There once was a woman who loved Facebook. She enjoyed finding old friends and meeting new ones. She happily searched for old classmates and added them to her friends list with joyful abandon. She even added an old boyfriend or two (with her husband’s approval of course).

Not long after joining Facebook, someone from her place of employment added her. She giggled gleefully and clicked ‘accept’ to the friend invitation. Soon others from her work added her and she felt very happy. Facebook helpfully suggested some other people to add. She learned how to do searches and added even more people to her friends list. Soon her list was very big and she felt very warm and fuzzy inside.

As time went on, the woman would occasionally get emails from Facebook that let her know that even MORE people wanted to be her friend. Sometimes she didn’t recognize the name of the person so she would sadly click ‘ignore’ on the invitation, hoping that the person would not take it personally. Other times she would smile and accept.

Time passed. The woman discovered the joy of Facebook applications and spent many a happy hour playing games and inviting her new and old Facebook friends to join her playing these games. She wondered how she EVER lived life before Facebook came along. At some point during this time, she had a conversation with her boss about why it was a good idea to keep her life on Facebook separate from the workplace. The woman agreed that was a good idea and resolved that she would no longer actively seek out any friends on Facebook if they were related to her job. She was very reluctant to delete the work friends she’d already made though– so she didn’t. She didn’t extend any new invitations to coworkers but she did continue to click ‘accept’ if someone reached out to her.

More time passed. She occasionally gave in to the temptation to add coworkers as friends if she received an invitation or a suggestion from Facebook.

She started to get better and better about ignoring Facebook suggestions, especially because they really seemed to send more and more almost daily and she rarely knew the person. She resolved to clean out her friends list and have it really be only people she knew personally or people with which she had games in common.

Then it happened. She was in her boss’s office, talking about work things. Her boss mentioned that she had gotten a friend request from the woman recently. The woman was horrified. She had NOT SENT any friend requests to anyone related to her work for some time. She can’t imagine how her boss would have gotten a request from her. How strange! She gently explained to her boss that she wouldn’t have sent her a friend request. She asked that she not take it personally but let her know that she just wouldn’t have invited her to be a friend because after all, she is her BOSS. Her boss laughed and said she completely understood and that she’d declined the invitation for just that reason.

The woman thought about this for awhile. She talked to a few people that she knew who were also on Facebook. They told her stories of similar things that had happened to them as well. She realized she was not the only one that had an experience like this.

Then it hit her. Facebook must have sent this request WITHOUT HER KNOWLEDGE. She realized that Facebook must pull her information from her friends list and her friends’ friend lists…it must just go on and on! It explained so much…why she sometimes got emails from people asking for friendship, only to see them in her friends list as ‘pending approval’ later. She thought these request were coming from them at the same time they thought they were coming from her. Facebook was pulling them from the friends list of her friends or THEIR friend's friend lists! Her head started to spin at all of the possibilities.

The woman got paranoid. She wondered just how many times people from her job had gotten requests from her. She started feeling like people might think she was a stalker. She worried that people might have accepted friend requests in order to avoid hard feelings. Her stomach got upset and her head started to hurt. This Facebook thing that used to be fun suddenly didn’t seem so fun anymore.

She looked at her friends list and saw how many coworkers and people related to her work were on it. She also saw how many people were on her friends list but she never actually interacted with them at all. She realized that she’d started ‘collecting’ people for no good reason other than to say to herself, “Look how many Facebook friends I have!”

Sadly, the woman realized there was only one thing left to do. She must delete all Facebook friends with whom an actual relationship did not exist. In addition, she needed to delete all friends related to her job. She wanted Facebook to be fun again and did not want to worry about how it might affect her workplace.

So…the woman did what she had to do and felt a little bit sad about it.



Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Contest I Just Entered

This is a contest one of my favorite bloggy people is doing. Check it out! (I mean, if you want to...I certainly won't force you or anything.) *grin*

Angie at 5 Vinez Monkeys is having a great DVD giveaway sponsored by Shout!Factory LLC and You Can Make This. You can win a chance to get creative with a $50 Halloween Download Bundle! Stop by before 11:59pm ET on October 20th and enter to win!

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Why I Love Breakfast

We had an interesting weekend without internet. I thought Brad and I were going to go bonkers. (Ended up being some technical thing related to our town and it's fixed now thank GOODNESS.) So, I'm a bit behind on my blogging plans.

I will do the Part II post very soon - which will hopefully catch you up on what is going on in our neck of the woods. I also have not forgotten the camping post I promised awhile back. I will get it done, just have to do the following:
  1. Find camera.
  2. Charge battery.
  3. Find cable to hook to laptop.
  4. Upload camping pictures.
  5. Write post.
Seems too daunting a task for my sleep-deprived brain to figure out right now. (We're transitioning Jamie to his own room and that is presenting it's own challenges.) I will get those posts done though I promise.

For today, I want to share a little something about my favorite place to have breakfast. There is a restaurant very close to where I work. I love this place. (I'd love to tell you the NAME of this place but it's pretty location-specific and you know how I like to try to avoid giving too much detail.) Anyway, they spoil me there. Just about every weekday morning, I go and get one of their yummy breakfast sandwiches and a Dr. Pepper. When I first started going there, I ordered a breakfast sandwich without cheese because the cheese they offer wasn't to my liking. They found out that I like cheddar and started putting shredded cheddar on my sandwiches. Now, all I do is walk in and they remember my shredded cheddar. How sweet is that?

Pic of my yummy sausage, egg and cheddar breakfast sandwich (note the melted cheddar cheese)


The lady who runs the show (Kathleen) is an absolute sweetie, as are the others who work there. Very friendly and helpful. Kathleen always makes sure I get a sample of new soups that she makes. Just love her to pieces! Don't even get me started about the huge cookies they sell...or the soups and salads and other foods. YYYUUUMMMMM.

Here is Kathleen. This is about as close as she'd let me get with my camera phone.

Anyway, I have a reason for telling you all of this. This restaurant is listed on a website that does restaurant reviews called UrbanSpoon. They are #14 on the "Best Restaurants" list and I totally think they deserve to go higher than that! So...if you are local and recognize the restaurant, GO VOTE FOR THEM ALREADY. If you do not recognize the restaurant from my pictures, leave a comment with a way to reach you and I will get you the direct link to the voting. In fact, leave a comment regardless of whether you need the link or not so that I know that you think they are awesome too.

I just had a great idea! Leave a comment telling me you voted and I will do a drawing. Winner gets lunch (or breakfast) at this yummy restaurant - my treat!

Please do not name the restaurant in the comments section. If you do, I will not be able to publish the comment. Yeah, I know. This is about the oddest advertising anyone ever did. I'm happy to share the name with you. Just comment and ask me for it and if I 'know' you then I'll be happy to share.